Thursday, June 10, 2010

#100 - Why I blog

Before I explain why I blog (aside from the fondness I feel for my bloggy friends), I have a few questions about blog awards. Where do they come from? Is there a board that approves them or may any Tom, Dick or Harry create one??? Have you ever created one? I’ve decided to try my hand at inventing some. Let me know what you think. The names are the:

I’m not a stalker, I live near here Award (inspired by folks watching Leah’s front porch photo sessions);
MAC-aholic Award (must give your Mac to the person who tagged you);
You chewed and swallowed what? Award (for people brave enough to eat things I wouldn’t);
Amusing musing Muse Award (funny, thoughtful, inspiring--this would look great on a t-shirt);
I was a teenage Aswang Award (don’t ask);
Cornered by a Bug Award (it was huge);
OMG, that's your inside voice? Award (for the joyful and exuberant);
You’re too smart, I had to Google before commenting Award (I need to read more);
You’re not bad, you’re just drawn that way Award (again, don’t ask);
Miley Cyrus Lifetime Achievement Award

I know you’ll all be fighting over that last one! If I was really going to invent awards, they would be the “I Love Reading Your Blog Award”; “You make me laugh/think Award”; and the “Mary Poppins’ Award” (for the practically perfect).

Okay, it’s all downhill and even more boring from here on. Why I blog…

Last December someone asked how I got into blogging—since you don’t see many married dads in blogville. Initially, I signed up because of MrsZ and Mel. I met them on-line, started reading their blogs, and wanted to comment. Coincidentally, my wife had suggested several times I start a blog—although she had something very different in mind for me. I continued commenting and posted once in a while. Before long I was meeting friends of friends and they were becoming friends too.

As I met more great people, I felt more comfortable sharing. A side benefit is getting my stories on the record accurately so I can share them with my kids—someday! In real life, people had been repeating my stories and usually getting them wrong. My wife spent a lot of time telling her family and co-workers stories about me and then they would re-tell them incorrectly. You know what happens to stories as they get re-told! Blogging gives me a chance to correct that while also connecting with some amazing people I never would have met IRL.

PS - I think my strength (relatively speaking) in blogville is commenting, not blogging. Sometimes I get a little carried away and comment too often. But hopefully that balances out with the times I can’t comment.

27 comments:

  1. haha! you're definitely different. i mean, a dad who blogs?

    but i'm glad that you found me (us, rather than just me in particular) through blogville :)

    and your comments are hilarious! i, for one, could use some manly ideas & thoughts =P

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  2. I laughed so loud because of that teenage aswang award. HAHAHAHAHA! where did you learn that?

    here is my "rick story" -
    i am a fan of shirley and i saw you in her chatbox. i added you and now im one of your friendly bloggy friend =)

    happy 100th post to you and more to come =D

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  3. 'aswang' what is that? if it's supposed to be in tagalog, then that's a vampire....i think.

    you know ill be clamoring for the "OMG, that's your inside voice? Award"

    and about stories getting retold inaccurately, i think that's a noble cause to start a blog. to clarify the 'telephone phenomenon.'

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  4. i think right about now i'd need that Cornered by a Bug Award lolllllllll
    *stare at the huge lizard on the wall*

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  5. Lol! First of all, great awards, loved them all! And I'd definitely wear an "Amusing musing Muse Award" t-shirt!! Now, do u happen to have a "I get cornered by bugs all the time Award"? I could use that one...
    "You’re not bad, you’re just drawn that way"... isn't it from "Who Framed Roger Rabbit"? Jessica Rabbit says it about herself to detective Valiant, doesn't she?! This is a great sentence, hehe!

    And I love your comments, feel free to post them in my blog as often as u feel like! =)

    Happy 100th post! Hope there are many more where the previous ones came from!

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  6. the teenage aswang award made me giggle 'cause i imagined some lame local movie about creepy creatures. you know UNDIN? hahaha! :P

    oh im sure a lot of MACaholics would be scared of that Mac-aholic award! hahaha! I wouldn't mind, i dont have a lot of MACs hehehe ;)

    I had so much fun in HK (its my happy place) thank you so much for the sweet comment you left on my blog rick! it means a lot! i appreciate it *BEARHUG* :)

    i realized im a few posts away to writing my 100th! wheee! :)

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  7. Hehehe. Loved your blog awards! I definitely think you should pass them out ;). I think it's great you blog! It definitely is a friendly community and we all appreciate your wise stories!

    clothed much, a modest fashion blog

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  8. I loved all of your awards, you could nominate me for the "I was cornered by a bug award"! I have an interesting story to tell about that, as you might know XD

    Congrats for 100 posts! I just reached my 66th post, hopefully to have 100 somewhere soon :-)

    I'm so glad you found me when my blog was still at it's beginning! I really enjoy each of your posts, and each of your comments! Actually, I also have the feeling that I comment more than I blog :-) Comments make bloggers happy!

    You're defintely one of the most special blogger friends I have. Feel hugged now!

    (PS: I just finished Dallas Season 2, and I guess JR gets shot in around season 3 or 4, I'm not sure about that. I need to buy box 3 asap!)

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  9. You are one of my ultimate favorite bloggers Rick, and I'm not even saying that just because I want most of those awards LMAO! Where did you learn about the Aswang? In Filipino folklore it means monsters, creatures of the night :)

    But seriously, your posts in your blog and your comments in mine never fail to brighten up my day. I am sooooo thankful I met you in this big blogosphere! (Do I now qualify for the OMG, that's your inside voice? Award?) :D :D

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  10. a teenage aswang is a creature ? LOL! i think i suit You’re too smart, I had to Google before commenting Award.
    & i got cornered by a bug before*spider* =.= it freaked the life out of me

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  11. lol love those creative blog awards, especially the google and omg ones

    it's cool to know why you started blogging. i used to have a xanga but wanted a space with more focus...yea that's going out of the window because i'm being pretty random on my blog lately! hahaha

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  12. and thank you for putting me in your sidebar ; )

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  13. I definitely like the fact that you're in blogland!

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  14. LOL thank you very much for the blog awards! haha. You'd be EXTREMELY amused to hear a story I have about a couple of bugs I recently found in my new apartment -__- I was a complete mess yelling and screaming while frantically trying to phone my friends so they could come rescue me. Long story short, it ended wit me using up about a half a can of Lysol and waking up my neighbors. Oh and I almost forgot to mention driving 60mph at 1:00am to the Walmart across town to pick up some bug spray and other devices (spending a total of $25) that would come in handy if I ever encounter another bug in my place. lol This is what happens when I live by myself and dont have anyone to save me. hahah

    And thanks for sharing your reason for why you started your blog. I always kinda wondered. :)

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  15. PS -
    none of my friends came to rescue me. By 1:00am every one I knew that was nearby was sleeping already :( I ended up calling a freind that lived 45 minutes away and didn't do anything but laugh at me on the phone and listen to me scream LOL

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  16. You are a great blogger and awesome blog friend! I am glad we got to connect through our blogs. Keep up the great posting and commenting friend =)

    PS. There should be an award for those who suck at blogging, like myself!

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  17. Aswang... OK I won't ask. LOL.

    You blog great and your thoughts are interesting. You have strength in blogging (re-read your posts if you have doubts), and of course you post sensible comments, too.

    I agree, it's fun having friends in the blogland.. those whom you haven't met but are surely part of your circle. I consider you one of them on my list.

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  18. LOL @ the teenage aswang award ... haha

    i dont think id want to receive the "MAC-aholic award"... im too selfish to give up my make up haha

    <3

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  19. I LOVE the awards... but don't ever give me the aswang award... you know what aswang means in the Philippines? Hahaha! They are dreadful ghosts... not the cute ones like Casper. I love the "I'm not a stalker" award. Cute!!!

    Happy 100th Rick... looking forward to more entertaining reads from you. xoxo

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  20. lol funnt awards. I like the Miley cyrus one, I can't believe she put out a bio book a year ago already! I think I'm the "OMG, that's your inside voice? AwardÈ hahaha

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  21. LOLZ love the 2nd from last award :D and it's a smart move to document your story in a blog for re-telling purpose in the future ^^ I def agree with u on that point!!

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  22. Love both your blogging stories and your comments.

    Happy 100th post, Ric! And better anniversary to come - Happy 10,000th post perhaps?

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  23. Happy 100th my dear friend. And I am so glad to see that you've come this far. I always knew you'd make a great blogger. You have so many stories to tell, lessons to teach us, and plus you always put in a lot of time in interacting with us and making us feel that we really are your friend. Happy 100th Rick! And cheers to many more!

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  24. Haha I love your awards! And Happy 100th! I'm glad to have met you, your wit and comments always make me laugh =) keep blogging!! ^^

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  25. Firstly I should thank you for commenting so regularly on my blog. I'm ever grateful.

    Secondly, I'm sure there are plenty of Dads in the blogosphere. Just that they are not as frank as you are.

    Thirdly, you blog great. I do enjoy reading your ramblings and learning from your wisdom.

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  26. Happy belated 100th post Rick!!!! To be honest, when I first "met" you, I thought.. that's weird... a dad who blogs... there must be a catch to this. hahaha! But hey, that's why you should always get to know people first before making judgements! :D

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  27. ...and yes, leah has already said it.. none of us want the Aswang award. hahaha!

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