
Growing up, my dad put our tree up on Christmas Eve. He'd wrestle it into the stand while speaking the same strange language as the dad in "The Christmas Story." I always helped decorate the tree. After arranging ornaments, we placed tinsel on the tree one strand at a time. Our tree topper is to the right—the beard hair came from Santa himself (haircut clippings).
My dad and sisters went to Midnight Mass each year--they were in the choir. After my chores, I made macaroni bracelets (or something) for my sisters, cards for my parents, and tried to play Christmas music on my grandpa’s ancient electric organ (we had a “by the numbers” guide). A turkey was usually soaking in salt water.
Since Santa had so much ground to cover, my folks told him not to wrap our presents. He created piles--so the excitement was figuring out which pile was yours. I usually got some combination of pants, a shirt, socks or underwear—somehow Santa always knew what I needed most. And there would be THE present. One year it was a doctor's kit. One year a plastic trumpet (no parent would give a noise-maker like that to their son). In the 6th grade I received a chess set.
We visited family during the holidays, including my dad's sister. She made amazing homemade cookies. But before cookies were served, you had to sit and listen to the adults talk for what seemed like hours…often debating the shortest route to places I'd never been. Snore!
Favorite Christmas Memory:
Instead of going to midnight Mass @ 12, I stayed home with my mom. We watched "A Christmas Carol" (1938 version). She let me have eggnog and fruitcake. I like eggnog. I like fruitcake. But combined they made me sick. Despite the upset stomach, that night with my mom is one of my favorite Christmas memories. Not too many years later I got engaged after a Midnight Mass--killing two birds with one stone. :)
Least Favorite Christmas Memory:
Taking tinsel off the tree! My father wanted to keep the tinsel to re-use the next year. So we had to take it all off one strand at a time. The tinsel was older than I was.
Christmas as an Adult:
The tree goes up mid-month with no hassle--on the 15th this year. Santa wraps presents, even though I've asked him not to. When we get together with family I start conversations about the best way to get to a particular place…to keep the tradition alive and to annoy the kids a little. They’ve heard the story and know why I do it.
Hopefully this Christmas season will create new fond memories for my family and I hope it does the same for my friends. Whether you celebrate or not, I wish you and your loved ones the peace and joy of the season!!!
Merry Christmas Rick! I love the Christmas memory of the time spent with your mom on that long ago Christmas Eve. And I'm sure that old tinsel was made of mercury and lead. :-)
ReplyDeleteThanks Kristie,Merry Christmas to you too. It's interesting how often the special memories are about little things, not expensive presents.
DeleteNow I'm curious about what tinsel used to be made from--the new stuff feels like plastic.
Merry Christmas!:)
ReplyDeleteIt's funny, at churches here, they make announcements before Christmas that "midnight mass will be at 8 pm." I really don't know why they still call it midnight mass!
Belated Merry Christmas, Tisha!
DeleteReally? We have caroling that starts at 10:30 and Mass usually starts at 11:30. But I haven't gone to that in years. We started going to the kids' Xmas eve mass @ 4:30, It's fun hearing the kids sing before Mass. :)
Merry Christmas Ric! I hope you are enjoying your holidays with your family :) And the least favorite memory does sound wretched...removing all that tinsel..argh!
ReplyDeleteThank you B, I hope you're having fun too. If I'd had 50 cents back then, I would have thrown out the old and bought new for the tree instead. :)
DeleteMerry Christmas to you Rick! I'm sorry I haven't been such a good blogger and commentor as I used to be lately, but I will catch up! Enjoy the holidays! :)
ReplyDeleteMerry Xmas to you too! Have fun and don't worry, I understand about getting busy and not blogging as often as you'd like.
DeleteHahah, I love the Christmas piles. That's what my mom wishes we would do, I think. She thinks wrapping is such a hassle. I myself really like it and buying all sorts of funky wrapping paper. I hope you made out with some really good loot this year!
ReplyDeleteMy favorite Xmas wrap usually has holly on it--but I don't like all holly-themed wrap. I'm picky. :)
DeleteI did okay this year, a book, 3 dvds and a CD.
I've always thought that the unwrapping process was the best part of presents! Doesn't really matter what's inside, the excitement comes from unwrapping! Happy Christmas again :D
ReplyDeleteI didn't mind at the time--just getting something was pretty amazing. But I guess that's why Santa wraps all the presents now. :)
Deletehope you have a great Christmas with awesome food and company! and haha taking tinsel off the tree, man I would be like.. I'll pay for the tinsel next year, just throw it out!!
ReplyDeletelol, if I'd had the 50 cents at the time I would have done the same thing. :)
DeleteOne strand at a time? Now that's dedication! Christmas is also my favorite holiday. :)
ReplyDeleteHope you and your family had a wonderful holiday! Happy New Year!!
It was a great way to learn stick-to-it-ive-ness! :)
DeleteSuch a cute story! I love hearing about people's Christmas traditions. My family always does the same routine year after year as well. What is it that is so comforting about these repeating of rituals?
ReplyDeleteMe too!
DeleteIn this ever changing world in which we live in (Paul McCartney), it's nice to know some things we love can remain the same and evoke fond memories.
Happy 2013 and a merry merry Christmas. I'm not late as there are 12 days of Christmas right? There has been too many activities in my life since Christmas and I haven't been visiting. Yours is the first and probably the the only one I would visit on the 1st day of 2013. May your 2013 be filled with lots of contentment and continue making people smile!
ReplyDeletePutting tinsel strand by strand sounds like an awful chore and removing them, even worse. They didn't come in a whole "string" back then? Hmm Maybe it is a way for your dad to train your patience. Your Christmas tradition sounds lovely. We do not have much going on here.
I agree on the 12 days, but it's never too late to be wished well by a friend. That's always welcome.
DeleteIt does ceom in garland form, but my parents didn;t favor that type. I've used both--and the garland is SO much easier...and almost as pretty. :)
Tinsel by the strand! I don't know if I have the patience for it! I would've given up after 10 minutes! But it makes for a great Christmas memory and you've shared quite a few traditions here!! Thanks!
ReplyDeleteIt (handling the tinsel) was a great exercise in learning to deal with frustration....remain focused on the task, take it one step at a time and just keep going until you're done.
DeleteI hated it! ;P
Taking the tree down and putting away ornaments/decorations is my least favorite thing to do. It seems to take twice as long as it did to put everything up. And then there's the mess. Pine needles everywhere! Haha, but it was all worth it. Hope you and your family had a wonderful Christmas. Happy New Year!
ReplyDeletexo, Yi-chia
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Thank you Yi-chia, Happy 2013! I hope you and your family had a nice holiday too.
DeleteIt's one mess I don't mind making. :) Our tree is still up, but this weekend we'll take off the ornaments, wrap it in a sheet, and drag it out the door to be recycled.
The tinsel was older than I was kekekeke, it is still around?
ReplyDeleteI hope you had an enjoyable Christmas with your family and Happy New Year!!! ♥
The tinsel disappeared as soon as my parents no longer had children at home to do the work for them. :D
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