Saturday, August 28, 2010

The Go-between

When I was 15 I bought my dad's old car. I gave him the money and "my" car stayed in a little parking area off the driveway that I created with old railroad ties. Once in a while I started it to keep the battery charged and one day I decided to drive it--just up an down our dirt road. After a few trips back and forth, I decided to practice parking. My brother came home and made the mistake of parking next to me. Yep, I hit his car the next time I tried to back out. The rear quarter panel was just pushed in a little. We popped it back out and you couldn't tell anything had happened. It was spotless.

I told my mom what happened and we had the weirdest conversation:

Mom: How could you drive that car after all of your father's lectures???
Me: He never told me not to practice driving the car.
Mom: Well, he lectured me and I was supposed to tell you!!!

Hahaha, being a go-between sucks. Have you ever been in that position? Having a friend or family member make you responsible for telling someone else they can't do something?

PS - My dad never heard about the accident. But 2 months later I came home from a friend's house to see my car was gone. Dad got an offer from an uncle and sold it to him. I asked for my money back, but instead he got me another car--one that I could only drive for 20 minutes before it overheated. I had to keep a 5-gallon can of water in my trunk. It was a brilliant move on his part. I couldn't get very far from home in 20 minutes. LOL!

21 comments:

  1. heheheheheheh
    smart daddyyy!!!!!
    but i am sure u wud ave formulated some -way out???kids usualllly do-lol

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  2. Hhahahaha, that is a smart dad!!

    I don't think I've ever been a go-between... Possibly because no one trusts me enough?!?

    clothed much, a modest fashion blog

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  3. thats a smart move from your dad hahaha :P

    i only become a go-between when my family is planning a get together or a vacation, nothing really serious, yet. ;)

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  4. hahahahah I've never been the go-between. I think I'm mostly the one who picks an unlucky go-between and makes threats if things don't go my way.

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  5. LOL, your dad is really smart! :D
    I often stuck in that go-between situation, sigh..

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  6. That is the weirdest conversation.

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  7. urmmm.... urmmmmm... i think i'm having a fever and therefore cant think straight.

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  8. Your dad's a genius. ;)

    P.S Thanks! Btw, I haven't heard of having to schmooze at AT for discounts!

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  9. I am the go-between for most of my friends as the bringer of bad news, bad gossip or anything bad that they want told to our other friends. I have a rare talent for being shameless so I get to do it.

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  10. Gotcha ;) I think I should start doing it too then...hehe.

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  11. Your dad is very clever :D

    Hmm, I don't think I've been a go-between, or asked another person to be a go-between. Maybe it's because I am so outspoken when it comes to my opinions :D

    Oh, btw Rick, the bully is not my new manager. If anything he has been great in handling things. It's an older colleague =/

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  12. I suck at being a go-between. I think people know that I suck at being a go-between that's why they tell me to do it. :P

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  13. Smart smart father!
    As for being a go-between... I've always refused to work as such, for nothing good could come out of it. I'm a clever girl! ;)

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  14. lol I hate being the middle man. No thanks. It's like "can you tell bla bla to bla bla" NO you do it yourself so I'm not liable for anything!

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  15. 1st cars are the greatest stories! My first car over-heated every time I drove it. But dammit, I was gonna drive that thing regardless. Never hit a parked car though, after all these years, I've yet to hit anything...on accident. :P

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  16. i refuse to be the go-between girl. i don't like responsibility as it is...why on earth would i want to bear someone else's? haha.

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  17. It overheats after 20 minutes... your dad got you a worse car!!

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  18. Not sure if I've ever been in this situation, but it sounds frustrating!

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  19. i hate being the go-between...i'm bad with it coz i sometimes (unintentionally) screw up the story hehehe and mostly because i'm just too lazy having to repeat everything that was said. :)

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  20. Your Dad's really smart ... i think I should do that to my son ... he's always breaking his curfew!

    In my home, it happens all the time ... I'm the middle-person between father and son ... always without fail!

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  21. what a rip off!! lol i hope i will be as brilliant a parent as your dad

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