It's Independence Day and cookouts are a tradition.
Until I was about 12 we never had cookouts. We had picnics near the stream on my dad's family's farm--and we'd play in the stream. But no cookouts. Then one summer my dad bought a round, red, charcoal grill and a new family tradition was born.
We used the grill 7 or 8 times a summer, including 2 or 3 full-blown family cookouts. They were a lot of work, but always fun. There were several "feats of strength" I hurried to do myself before someone else got the idea to do them--like getting the picnic table out of the basement by myself or getting the "purple" table from the backporch to the carport (it weighed a ton). Being a dumb 12 year-old, it never occurred to me that my brothers had no interest in helping. By the time I wised-up, it was too late--those were part of my cookout-related chores.
At one cookout an uncle bellowed for me to get him a drink from the cooler. Before I gave it to him I shook it up r-e-a-l good. He chased me for 10 minuntes, but he was laughing. At another I finally met the aunt who took care of me during my first 6 months on the planet. She was waaay overprotective of her daughter. My dad kept the aunt busy while I took my cousin swimming to have some fun. There was badminton, swings, horseshoes, tennis, baseball and motorcycle rides. One of my sisters and a cousin almost drove the motorcycle into our very thorny rose hedge. They were saved when the clothesline knocked them both off the bike just before they hit the hedge. It was hysterical (they weren't hurt).
Then there was the clean-up. Everyone pitched in and it went quickly, but there was one special job reserved for me the following day. My dad used little pieces of cork to insulate the grill from the heat of the charcoal--after 10 years that grill almost looked brand new. The Monday after a cookout, I would take the grill into our veggie garden and use a big square of screen to sift the charcoal dust out of the cork. Like the tinsel I removed annually from our Xmas tree, the cork went back into its bag to be used again next time. The cork cost 50 cents, so I think my dad must haved believed if he watched his pennies, the dollars would take care of themselves. He was probably right.
Summer cookouts, good times. Whether you cookout or not, I hope your summer is filled with good times with good people. It's summertime and the living is supposed to be easy.
Any summer memories you'd like to share????
Ps - If you're in the southern hemisphere, remember this in six-months! =)
way to go for acknowledging your Southie readers! i kinda wish its fall-winter ryt now coz it's so hot. and my family never had cookouts. i guess it's a quintessentially American thing to do. my family just has a get together. that's it. :/ maybe in the future we'll have one! but i remember we went to the Rose Bowl to watch fireworks. they were fun.
ReplyDeletehave a good one!
Happy 4th of July to you! My best memories of my family are those that happened in summer, too, when everyone was at home because school is out (I am in the Philippines by the way and our summer months are April and May). We loved hiking and the beach. Ah, good memories. Thinking about this brings me back to the good old days when I was little and had little worries.
ReplyDeletewell, our summer here is over. But i had fun this summer. Cookouts, picnics, swimming. aw. love it.
ReplyDeletemy latest post is on the 4th of july :D
ReplyDeleteAaa, summer memories!! :-)) I love them! :-)
ReplyDeleteAtm, I can't really enjoy summer, cause I have to work so much and because it is too hot! :-))
But I will definitely make my summer great! :-)
we have cookouts all year round. lol. fun time until some nosy family members ask you inappropriate questions. lol
ReplyDeleteCookouts sound like so much fun! Not so fun is the clean up time or the waiting time for the food to cook ;D
ReplyDeleteHahahaha, the South Hemisphere dwellers apreciate your acknowledgement!
ReplyDeleteSince it's eternal summer in Rio de Janeiro, my family would have cookouts every other weekend, the entire year! I loved those! But nothing exciting happened to me, really: I just stuffed myself with meat and potatoes! I didn't even have to do any kind of chore at the end.
Those were the times!
I love cookouts when we have it. Not the norm here though.. since the majority of our population doesn't even have the space to do it. (we do have occasional BBQs)
ReplyDeleteSounds like fun! Ah I miss summer =D
ReplyDeletethanks for the comments!!
ReplyDeletehope you visit again,
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Cookouts are fun... I love the smell of barbecue and everybody's laid-back attitude. Happy 4th of July my dear friend! xoxo
ReplyDeletehappy 4th of July! (belated)
ReplyDeletecookouts and times with family are always the best :)
Happy Independence Day! Ooo ... I love cookouts. Here I think we normally call it 'Bar-be-que' and it's where family and friends get together.
ReplyDeleteThinking about this, it's been awhile since we've held one. Hmmm ... our independence day's coming soon (31st Aug). Probably can consider doing one. Thanks for the idea, Rick!
that is great.. our summer here in phil, was done, it was great..
ReplyDeleteenjoy your summer..
your new friend tim..
Oh yes, cookouts are always fun Rick. I remember having summer cookouts too when I was still in California. It became a yearly tradition spent with family and family friends. Good food+ good company= happiness. Have a wonderful summer Rick
ReplyDeleteHappy late 4th of July!
ReplyDeleteI've had a couple picnics over the last month or so, they're so fun...but easier to throw together spontaneously than a full out cookout.
Love the anecdote about your shaking up the pop can! Good thing your uncle had a good sense of humour!
cookouts are fun, I totally miss going to BBQs!! hope you had a great 4th of july. Btw I got your e mail today! yeah I've been on vacation and hasn't realy been around a computer. thanks and I'll see what I can come up for the wax! :D
ReplyDeleteSeems like alot of fun is going over on your side.
ReplyDeleteMost of us live in high rise flats here in Singapore, and no backyards, so we sure are missing out alot on fun.
Guess that's why most of us find fun online. =p
Love reading those stories of yours. Glad no one got injured in those thorns! ^_^